The woman who was previously slammed after refusing to go on a first date to The Cheesecake Factory has admitted that she was 'self-centered' in the now viral clip - but still insisted that a man should treat her like 'royalty.'
Alicia and
porn Jay, who first met at a bar in Midtown Atlanta, made headlines last week when she refused to get out of the car and
memek branded the chain restaurant as 'embarrassing.'
But,
crot following the duo's bitter debate in the video which has so far amassed over 7.8 million views,
crot they sat down with host of the Truth Factory Kevin Wesley to describe the aftermath of the fiery first date.
And
crot while Alicia noted that she could have behaved better,
bokep she explained that as a 'queen' she should not be expected to go into a chain dinner spot.
Alicia was previously slammed after refusing to go on a first date to The Cheesecake Factory and
memek has now admitted that she was 'self-centered'
Alicia and Jay,
bokeh who first met at a bar in Midtown Atlanta, made headlines last week when she refused to get out of the car and
bokep branded the chain restaurant as 'embarrassing'
Following the duo's bitter debate in the video,
bokep they sat down with host of the Truth Factory Kevin Wesley to describe the aftermath of the fiery first date
When the duo caught up with Wesley,
porn Alicia told the host that she refused to get out of the car because 'a queen doesn't do that,' adding that she cannot be seen going into The Cheesecake Factory.
She also opened up about her decision to record their conversation, despite Jay's hesitations. Alicia stated: 'I felt like [he] didn't see my value. In that moment, I felt like I needed the support of my viewers in that moment.
'I discuss relationships and
bokep things like that, so I thought that that was a good opportunity for me to have that conversation and see like what does everybody else think.
'I wasn't really taking [Jay's] feelings into consideration,
crot I wasn't trying to be necessarily malicious or anything.'
She also chalked up her behavior to the crowd she surrounds herself with. Alicia said that if any of her pals discovered she went to The Cheesecake Factory,
crot she would 'never live it down.'
She explained that her attitude came from her upbringing because she had been raised to expect a man to 'court' her.
Alicia noted that she could have behaved better after Jay took her to The Cheesecake Factory,
crot but as a 'queen,' she should not be expected to go into a chain dinner spot
She explained that her attitude came from her upbringing because she had been raised to expect a man to 'court' her
Alicia added:
bokep 'To be fair, I was always raised that the man is supposed to cater to you. You're courting me,
bokep so court me. That means wherever I want to go,
porn you take me. Whatever I want,
bokeh you buy me. That's courting. I'm looking for a provider.'
However,
bokeh she did admit that she may have focused on herself too much, instead of taking into account Jay's feelings.
'But after the conversation, I could see how there was a lot of "I" in that exchange. I was definitely very self-centered. I can appreciate that if I do want someone to provide for me,
bokep I have at least got to be a little bit nice.
'I'm a beautiful woman, so I expect to be treated like royalty,' she continued. Alicia explained that her race was a factor
porn in the conversation because she was 'tired of having to settle.'
She noted that as a black woman, she no longer wants to stay in relationships where her needs aren't being met,
memek adding that she wants a 'soft life.'
Jay spoke about how the clip has impacted his dating life, adding that he has found it difficult to find someone who is genuinely interested in him because Alicia took their date to the next level by recording it.
However, she did admit that she may have focused on herself too much,
bokeh instead of taking into account Jay's feelings
He explained:
crot 'Women kind of have this image of me based on the video, which hasn't helped. It's like they might think everything about me is reflected in that video, and
memek I don't think it is.
'Her recording me did feel like that's where she was trying to take advantage. It felt at the time that [she was] trying to get a free meal from a fancy restaurant and then get content from me too to post on YouTube or
memek Facebook.'
Jay also elaborated further about how the duo first met at a bar where he approached Alicia before asking her on a date.
Alicia noted that although she wasn't attracted to Jay at first glance,
memek she believed that he was 'thoughtful and engaging,' so she gave him a chance.
And
porn Jay insisted that it wasn't his intention to take her to the chain restaurant but their plans were disrupted when she made him wait an hour outside of her house when he arrive to pick her up.
He added that the clip painted him in a bad light. At the end of the interview,
bokep both Alicia and Jay noted that they would consider going on a second date if they could come to an agreement about their values.
Alicia was slammed online after refusing to get out the car for
crot a first date at The Cheesecake Factory
She complained to Jay that the chain restaurant was 'embarrassing' In the controversial clip which initially sparked the outrage online, Alicia could be seen sitting in the passenger seat of a car.
While donning a plunging neon green dress,
memek she looked directly at the camera from behind a pair of statements shades.
Jay said he would walk around to open her door
porn but, as soon as he exited the car,
bokeh she expressed her dismay.
Alicia said: crot 'He's got me at The Cheesecake Factory.'She then locked the door,
bokeh shook her head and moved her finger disapprovingly as her date appeared outside her door.
He knocked and she eventually said with disgust: 'This is The Cheesecake Factory. This is a chain restaurant.
'Who takes someone that looks like this to a chain restaurant?'Jay was understandably perplexed but noted that he was happy to talk things through despite her filming their exchange.
She ordered him to get back in the car before he asked:
porn 'So, you expect a man to go all out on the first date, is that right?'
To which, she responded with an air of condescension:
memek 'You're supposed to. When you take out a beautiful woman and you're courting her - because I get courted - you're supposed to take care of her, you're supposed to cover her, you're supposed to protect her,
crot cherish her,
porn treat her well,
bokeh right?'
He agreed,
bokep adding: 'I went into the date with expectations for myself - to keep you safe,
bokeh to respect you,
crot to pay for your food,
bokep to pick you up - and
crot just treat you like a gentleman [should]. Which I believe I have done.
'I,
bokep on the other hand,
porn have certain expectations for
bokeh a girl I go out with on a first date. I expect her to be respectful too, I expect her to be cooperative.'
Her date revealed that he had made a reservation elsewhere but that an unforeseen delay meant they missed it - and so The Cheesecake Factory was the backup option (stock image)
She was left stunned when he insisted on calling it a night before she muttered:
bokeh 'I understand
porn you got to do what you got to do'
Alicia repeatedly fixed her hair and made it clear that she was unconvinced.She replied:
memek 'I feel like I'm doing everything I'm supposed to do as a woman. I got myself all made up...'
Before she could finish her sentence,
memek Jay interjected:
bokep 'But there is nothing wrong with The Cheesecake Factory.
